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September 24, 2010

Long Story Short....

So, it's a rather long story, but I will condense it for you.  About a month ago, we were told that we would be moving next spring/summer, on schedule.  My husband was also told that he would have normal duty until then which consists of typically 2-3 weeks gone each month flying missions on the C-17.  Well, last week he was stopped by his Commander and was told that he is deploying to Afghanistan, will be flying a new jet, and it will all start to happen (training followed by the deployment) in February.  This sounds like a long time from now, but when he's gone at least half of the month each month, that leaves us with 2 months where we'll be together to get packed up and ready to move me and the kids to Kentucky for the nearly 16 months that we'll be separated.

I can't go into details about his deployment, nor do I probably even know them all (for security reasons), but suffice it to say it's not "as" safe as his last deployment. It also was a shock, plain and simple, that he got it.  Of course in the military we all know that deployments happen - that's a fact of military life.  BUT, when you're told you won't be going on one, and then your wife takes that to heart and gets comfortable, it's a shocker when she hears one day when you come home for lunch that you'll be leaving.

We are getting down to business though now, already, preparing to move a whole house.  I also have to wrap up my Master's classes for now.  Because I am seeking certification to teach, I have to have a mentor at a local school and moving will throw a kink in that and set me back a semester or two.  Not to mention that I now have to decide what to store, what to take, what to throw away, and what to give away in order to pack.  I thought I had until next spring!!!!!

Your kind words, thoughts, and prayers are appreciated.  It is what it is, and we will get through it like we always do. I can tell you that I have such a strong testimony of the purpose of families and the roles of parents, and being apart only strengthens it. I know that my Heavenly Father will not give us more than we can bear.  As part of Psalms 2:12 says, "Blessed are all they that put their trust in him."  I know that Peter will be safe, and we will make it through this difficult time.  We are doing all that we can together - trying to build some memories - as a family during the days/weeks that Peter is actually here in town before we move in February.  That will explain my sparse stamping.  Not to mention that the kids have school, soccer, I have my Master's classes, volunteer work, and we have all of our other normal obligations to meet that don't "care" if we're going to move in a few months.  Packing up a 4-bedroom house is going to be fun - or NOT!! ;)  Ha ha ha.

So....have a wonderful day and a fabulous weekend!

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15 comments:

  1. Ah, Marie.. hugs and prayers from me. Where will you be moving to in Kentucky? I live just south in Tennessee.

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  2. Good luck with the packing and moving. I'm sure you all will make some special time before he leaves. Prayers and hugs to you!

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  3. I love your positive attitude. Yes, being apart will only strengthen your relationship. Packing frantically however, well ... Lol! Kentucky will be beautiful in the fall. So pack up everything but your camera and your lap top and practice stamping and scrapping on MDS until you get settled. Good luck with your move nd a big hug!!!!

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  4. Sending you hugs and good wishes! Pack the stamps last -- you never know when you can fit in a little stamping time! :)

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  5. You're in my prayers! Did you mention where about Kentucky you'll be moving to? You know I'm stationed at Fort Campbell! :-)

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  6. You are my heroine! and your husband is my hero! I will pray for your family as you get ready to move and say goodbye for just a short while. I also would like to tell you that I have given you the One Lovely Blog Award. You richly deserve it for your beautiful work and now especially at this time. The Lord bless you and keep you all in His precious care! Keep us posted. Thank you for blessing my day and my stamping life. :)

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  7. I love reading your blog. I love your cards! You have such a postive attitude. Prayers are being said for the family. I am also a KY girl. I live in central KY.

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  8. I commend your attitude, Marie. I know you will make the best of the situation. I am so grateful for the men like your husband who fight for our country. Take care.

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  9. Well, let's hope that everything will be fine and that he'll be back before you know it. 16 months is a very long time, but try to stay in contact a lot and it will work out. Wishing you all the best! Nina

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  10. Wow, 16 months. I want to steal Lynda's comment - just re-read it and know that we are grateful for our military and their families and what you do for the rest of us. We're here for you!

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  11. Ok, Marie,

    I have to tell you that you are one brave and wonderful girl!!!! I just love you so much and I hope that this will go as smoothly as possible. I want you to know if there is anything that I can do to help I will!!! Just say the word.

    Hugs!!!!

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  12. Thoughts and prayers are with you as always. You do have a positive attitude and I'm sure that will get you through, as well as your faith.

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  13. Marie - I know there is nothing I can really say that makes this easier. Please know that we are behind you and your family as you go through this transition. I continue to learn how much that the decision to serve is a family commitment. Thanks for sharing this personal news so that we can be here to help you.

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  14. Marie,
    You're going to do great! Hugs to you and I hope that everything goes smoothly for you!
    Kasie

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  15. Ah...on to the next adventure...take if from an Air Force Daughter, Army Wife, Marine Mother...it only gets better. Take a deep breath, pack the tape runner and the paper trimmer FIRST...the rest will follow. Thoughts of you and your family...Liz

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Marie :)